早上快九点进入签证大厅，交材料，两人领到一个牌子。在队伍里等待。5，6，7，8，9
号窗口开着，按照bbs上的介绍，好像5号是DTT，6号是XTT，7号是墨西哥男，8号是美男
，9号是平头。因为人很多，不清楚前面的签证情况。将近11点左右被领到6号窗口。我们
几乎是我们队的最后。我们牵着手站在队里，没有怎么说话，主要在看前面的情况。队里主要是父母探亲的，还有一个mm签F1。总的情况不是太坏，探亲的大部分都过了，主要问儿女的情况，家庭的情况，儿/女回过国没有，照片等。F1是去学comparative
linguistics，听到vo说“It feels strange to study Chinese linguistics in
states.”最后被据了。Vo下一个叫了我的名字，我拉着LP，提着材料快步上去。
Me: good morning.
VO：(no response)
Me: Here is the transcript.
VO: (read my transcript.)
Me: Here is the document list, want to see? (no response, after a while) We
have a letter for you, want to take a look? (Insert the letter)
Vo: (no response) You study computer science?
Me: Yes.
Vo: When did you start study in U.S.?
Me: Since **（时间1）.
Vo: How long is left in your program?
Me: About one and half year.
Vo: (撕条，将我的材料放在一边，转向我LP) 你能说英文吗？
LP：我的口语和听力都不太好，能说中文吗？
VO：结婚证。
Me: (找到结婚证，递给VO)
VO：你们什么时候结婚的？
LP：我们两个星期以前结婚的，但是我们已经认识3年了。。。。
VO: (turn to me) Show me what establishes your relationship before you went to
U.S.?
Me: (Not clear) Excuse me?
VO: (repeat), like pictures.
Me: I don’t have the proof before **（我第一次走的时间）. We knew each other
during my first coming back in ####（时间2）. But We have all the pictures,
emails, mails, since ####（时间2）. Want to see?
VO: (no response. Writing something. After a while.) I am sorry, I can’t
issue her a visa.
Me: (thunder) Why?
VO: We have many problems for this kind of situation.
Me:（急了，开始紧张，说话已有些语无伦次） I am just telling you the truth. We
have pictures, emails, mails since ####（时间2）. (try to show him the
pictures)
VO: (not even look)
LP: 我丈夫给你写了一封信。(insert the letter)（信里有我们基本情况的介绍，这是
我们花了很多心思写的信，但vo几乎是敷衍的扫了几眼，根本没有仔细看。）
VO: xxxxxxxxxx (盖章，将材料扔出来)
Me: But we have known each other for 3 years. We communicate through phone,
emails, Internet chat almost daily. I am coming back every year to stay with
my wife.
VO: Every year, for how long?
Me: A month every year.
VO: xxxx (意为一个月不够建立关系)
(工作人员上前将我们劝走。)